The baby finally went home with us on Sunday. Yay! But woe to me I’m not used to waking up at night every two hours or so anymore. I was supposed to get back to work on Monday but I woke up that day with a migraine headache that wouldn’t go away.
By Tuesday, I felt better. That morning as I approached the train station on my bike, I saw a man waiting for the Amtrak motorcoach I was going to take. It’s usually just me waiting for the bus at this time. I asked him if he had been waiting long and he said he had been there since 9 a.m. I informed him the bus usually arrives about 15 minutes late. The bus, however, hadn’t arrived by 9:30 a.m. At this point we had had a pretty lengthy conversation going so he offered me a lift to Santa Clara where we both work. He had parked his car at the train station and had planned on taking the bus to work. I accepted. He seemed to be a pretty decent guy.
In our conversations, I found out he is Filipino-Chinese, is a Christian, works in the tech industry and has three children. I myself am part Chinese (my great grandfather was from Amoy, China). The similarities don’t end there. He migrated to the US at age fourteen, the same age I did, but a decade earlier. He is about ten years older than me and his children are in their teens. He gave me a glimpse of how I would possibly be like ten years from now.